Time to speak up

29 10 2011

Our local police force released statistics about crime rates last week, garnering attention both for the drop in overall crimes and for the disturbing increase in certain categories. An increase in the number of local murders, in particular, has resulted  in a 4.2% overall increase in violent crimes vs last year. But the increases in sexual assaults against women and children, and in child pornography, are especially alarming.

Media coverage about the numbers (and some local blogs) quoted area politicians’ reactions to the figures, focused on the costs of policing and the difficulties in comparing numbers across municipalities. Hamilton isn’t Muskoka, one Councillor pointed out. The figures are to be reviewed in more detail. Let’s hope that review considers the costs of these crimes to our community not only in a financial context but in the price paid by victims and their families. Crimes against children, in particular, tear at the very fabric of our neighbourhoods and diminish us all as members of this community.

Hamilton is above the Canadian average for violent crimes. And our rate of sexual assaults against children as well as child pornography has been rising. Policing aside, what are we as a community doing about that? Are we talking about it, outraged by it, seeking solutions to change it? There is much to think about given these latest crime statistics. The thinking cannot be limited, however, to the sphere of law enforcement and municipal government. Conversations need to happen in private homes and coffee shops as well – what do we think about the sentencing handed out to those who prey on children? What messages might we send to make sure the vast majority’s outrage over these despicable crimes is understood?

The burden of finding and apprehending the criminals represented in the statistics rests on our Hamilton Police Service. But they cannot and should not stand as our only response to child abuse, woman abuse, or child pornography. These are crimes with roots in societal issues. These are crimes that send powerful messages, of the very worst kind, to kids. Our continued silence won’t do anything to change that.





Grateful in Wonderland

22 10 2011

What a night. A steady parade of hats, costumes, and grins arriving at the Ancaster Fairgrounds to travel “down the rabbit hole” and celebrate the 35th anniversary of the Community Child Abuse Council at the 2011 Mad Hatter’s Ball. By all accounts a good time was had by all, and the Council was the fortunate beneficiary of all the fun.

Regular readers of my blog know that this is an event I spearheaded in the early part of 2011. Watching it all unfold last night was heartwarming. The tally of proceeds isn’t in yet, but money aside it was truly inspiring to see the merriment and hear the laughter in a crowd brought together by a very sad need (fighting child abuse). As I said from the stage, it’s tough to be celebratory when you’re the Community Child Abuse Council and families turn to you in the wake of sexual abuse. But those little victories and

heart-swelling success stories that unfold on a regular basis at the Council are ones that must be shared and celebrated. That’s why, from the very start, we set out to host a “party with a purpose” rather than any other sort of fundraising event.

My personal thanks to friends and family, colleagues, and Council supporters who came out to attend the festivities and spend money in support of the cause. And my very sincere gratitude to those, including friends and family, who gave their time and considerable talents as volunteers before, during, and after the event. What an amazing team of volunteers the evening brought together! I appreciate your support so very much.

Pictures from the event will be posted on the Mad Hatter’s Ball web site: www.the2011mhb.com

 





A party with a purpose!

5 10 2011

It’s October, time for leaves to turn colour, for pumpkin pies, and for wardrobe changeovers. It’s also Child Abuse Prevention Month. And that means it’s time for The Mad Hatter’s Ball!

No ordinary fundraising gala dinner, this. It’s a party with a purpose. For one night only, the Ancaster Fairgrounds’ Marritt Hall will become Wonderland for a gathering like no other, featuring dinner, live music, dancing, casino, cash bar, and additional fun. It’s all in support of the Community Child Abuse Council, marking its 35th anniversary this year.

Full details can be found at: www.the2011mhb.com. Tickets are $75 pp and can be purchased online, or by calling 905-523-1020 ext. 10. Tables of 8 are also available.

Costumes are encouraged, but hats are essential. It’s the Mad Hatter’s Ball, after all. So find a topper, dust off your dancing shoes, and come out to play for a very good cause. You’ll be joining a great group of committed supporters who know how important the Council’s programs and services are to young people impacted by trauma and abuse. They include Chief of Police, Glenn De Caire (Honourary Patron), Jason “The Hatter” Farr (MC), a stellar line-up of musicians (all volunteering their talents) and community supporters with big hearts.

Hope to see you there!





October is Child Abuse Prevention Month

2 10 2011

To educate yourself about child abuse, and for information about what each of us can do, please visit www.childabusecouncil.on.ca.

To support the work of the Community Child Abuse Council, marking its 35th anniversary this year, join the fun on October 21st at the Mad Hatter’s Ball: www.the2011mhb.com.





“The Cruelty Crisis”

14 08 2011

Dr. Brené Brown

Here’s an interesting and thought-provoking take on bullying from Dr. Brené Brown (Professor and researcher, University of Houston, Graduate College of Social Work). She draws our attention not to the kids we typically associate with schoolyard trauma or to the teens whose angst can have devastating results, but to our own (adult) behaviours and our society’s tolerance of cruelty. Recommended reading.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ordinary-courage/201010/the-cruelty-crisis-bullying-isnt-school-problem-its-national-pastime





Golf Anyone?

23 07 2011

The great people at Lanhack Engineering are once again hosting a golf tournament this year, with proceeds going to the Community Child Abuse Council and to Help A Child Smile. Dave and Carlo and their team have been generously doing this for more than a decade now and have proven to be amazing hosts. It’s a first-class tournament, from the welcoming drive into the Heron Point grounds to the oyster bar and the live auction (Dave, you’re a talented auctioneer!). This year’s auction will include an autographed Sidney Crosby jersey.

The 12th Annual Lanhack Golf Tournament is Thursday, August 25th at Heron Point Golf Links. Interested golfers who would like to join us for a great day in support of local charities can still register by contacting Karen (enmarkassociates@gmail.com). Fee per golfer is $200 and includes 18 holes with power cart, lunch, dinner and prizes. Tee time is 1:00 p.m. (shot gun start) following BBQ lunch beginning at 11:30 a.m. Hole sponsorships are also available, and donations very welcome.

See you on the links!

 





Exciting new challenge!

22 06 2011

Change is in the air, along with an exciting new challenge for Karen Smith, EnMark Associates’ owner and principal consultant. In August, Karen will be joining the Community Child Abuse Council of Canada as Executive Director. She’s already built a strong rapport with the agency over the past several years and looks forward to this new challenge.

Karen remains at the helm of EnMark Associates, but will be only selectively involved with the firm’s projects while settling in to her new full-time post. Most projects will be serviced by the firm’s talented team of Associates. Karen is looking forward to working with the Council’s dynamic board, talented staff team, and community partners and will be devoting her attention to these new challenges for the foreseeable future.

Clients of EnMark Associates and those wishing to reach Karen about the firm’s work can continue to do so through this site.





Latest Briefing from Child Abuse Council

11 05 2011

Regular readers know that the Community Child Abuse Council releases periodic issues of its Leadership Briefing to inform and engage the public. Karen has been authoring these briefings since their inception. The latest release is now available on the Council’s web site (http://www.childabusecouncil.on.ca/) or here: Leadership Briefing Spring 2011





An Ambitious Undertaking…

21 04 2011

OK, it’s six months away but I had to share one of the most ambitious volunteer undertakings I have yet to embark upon…

Together with Event Co-Chair, Marilyn Smith (no relation, but how uncanny!) I am organizing a sizeable fundraising event to benefit the Community Child Abuse Council. October is Child Abuse Prevention Month, so it’s the perfect time for this soiree. It’s also set for 10 days before Halloween…hmmm, costumes anyone?

The 2011 Mad Hatter’s Ball is a party with a purpose. And a fundraising event like none other. Unique venue, great food, live music and dancing, no silent auction, no head table, no speeches. Just a lot of fun and a chance for adults to come out and play in support of kids who really need our support. For information and tickets, or to join us as an event sponsor, please visit the event web site : www.the2011mhb.com.





Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood

8 04 2011

McDonald's ad, Austria

 Regular readers will know that I have talked about this topic often – the commercialization of childhood and the inappropriate (and damaging) marketing of everything under the sun to kids. More often than not the messages are highly sexualized, exploiting the very innocence that ought to be protected.

Here are two resources you may find interesting. It’s nice to share other voices and reassuring to know others are ranting about this too.

www.commercialalert.org: their mission is “to keep the commercial culture within its proper sphere, and to prevent it from exploiting children and subverting the higher values of family, community, environmental integrity and democracy”. Check out their Parents’ Bill of Rights and campaign to get salespeople out of schools.

Our nation is in the grips of a commercial hysteria. Sometimes it seems like everything is for sale. At Commercial Alert, we stand up for the idea that some things are too important to be for sale. Not our children. Not our health. Not our minds. Not our schools. Not our values. Not the integrity of our governments. Not for sale. Period.

www.commercialexploitation.org: national organization (U.S.) devoted to limiting the impact of commercial culture on children – their mission is “to reclaim childhood from corporate marketers”. Good resources and attention to diverse issues (from obesity to violence) along with clout in their advocacy efforts – they have successfully battled Disney, Scholastic Inc. (Bratz), McDonald’s and Hasbro. 

The commercialization of childhood is the link between many of the most serious problems facing children, and society, today.  Childhood obesity, eating disorders, youth violence, sexualization, family stress, underage alcohol and tobacco use, rampant materialism, and the erosion of children’s creative play, are all exacerbated by advertising and marketing.  When children adopt the values that dominate commercial culture—dependence on the things we buy for life satisfaction, a “me first” attitude, conformity, impulse buying, and unthinking brand loyalty—the health of democracy and sustainability of our planet are threatened.  CCFC works for the rights of children to grow up—and the freedom for parents to raise them—without being undermined by commercial interests.

CCFC is active in the Toronto area where a recent campaign helped stop the installation of digital monitors in area highschools (along with their ad content)…anyone involved with CCFC in Hamilton???